We don't know how many times we have to say it, but cats love their humans. So much. We will not stand for the slander against them. We will allow people to say that cats are aloof and uncaring without speaking up and defending them. Yeah, sure, cats may show their affection in funny ways, like blinking at you very slowly or showing you their backside without you asking to see it, but that does not mean that their affection is any less real or valid. It is up to you to learn their love language, not the other way around.
And even if your cat is a little more on the "unaffectionate" side, if it shows you affection a little more rarely, you can count on one thing, and that is that your cats will be there for you when you need them the most. We have seen it time and time again. When we're hurt, when we're scared, when we're upset, suddenly, even our most "aloof" cats become little cuddlebugs that won't leave our sides.
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